Why Men Won’t Commit – The Answer Will Surprise You

by suzy

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Why You Are With A Man That Won’t Commit

Why men won’t commit, is that your question?

This question is asked by more divorced women dating over 40 than any other inquiry they may have.

The truth is, it’s complicated to understand the idea of men and commitment and there is not a simple solution to this problem.

Here is what I have learned from interviewing males on this subject.

Guys who admit to commitment issues have put it this way.

Who would want to obligate themselves to a monthly mortgage, taking the trash out, cutting the grass every week and exotic vacations all to keep the little lady happy?

It appears for a certain percentage of males the word commitment has a strong obligatory undercurrent.

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It almost feels to them like it would be mandatory to do things which would result in surrendering their own freedom.

The “C” word for some men brings up the feeling, of “I don’t really want to do this, but now I’m stuck with an unpleasant situation.”

A guy hates to be expected to do anything that he does not resonate with on a gut level.

Many guys think life is a lot more interesting when you get to do something, not when you have to do something!

To many men commitment means having to do it rather than wanting to do it.

 Why Men Won’t Commit – The Answer Will Surprise You

One of the common desires that males across the globe all share is their freedom.

The masculine energy strives to experience independence. In his psyche, he wants release from the constraints of life.

On the other hand, the female wants to nurture others and be nurtured with love, joy, energy and attention.

Some fellows say the feminine energy can feel suffocating with certain types of women manipulating them to do things that they really don’t want to do.

Fear of commitment in relationships is often a subconscious problem for males.

If a woman takes the time to understand the psychology around this issue she has the tools to create a different outcome.

Two Questions To Ask Yourself

So instead of asking why he will not commit, ask yourself these 2 questions:

1. How can I create more passion and attraction between him and me, so that he won’t want to be anywhere else?”

2. How can I put in place a supportive environment for him to feel safe, so he can trust me to be his source of freedom?

Ladies, the power you have is in the attraction you can manifest between him and you.

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He should feel that sovereignty through you and with you.

There are several elements to this.

The man need to feel and think that it is his choice and desire to commit to you.

It’s about your guy feeling pulled to you by his own free will rather than an external force pushing him to do something that causes internal resistance in a man.

When you man wants you and only you.

When he would rather be with you than past girl friends, his mother, or his best manly bud then and only then do you know he is ready for commitment.

So now you know some of the truth around the question, “Why men won’t commit.

Hugs,

Suzy Weiss

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BILLY M August 20, 2012 at 8:25 AM

TO SUZY, it seems to me that you are not the EXPERT that you think you are. why do you put us men down with the comments that you are responding to? there are many of us INNOCENT MEN out there that do not play games like you women seem to do these days. you are certainly not so smart at all, the way i see it. so many very UNEDUCATED women out there now, what a shame.

suzy September 1, 2012 at 12:39 PM

Thanks Billy I appreciate all your positive and insightful thoughts!

ALAN August 10, 2012 at 8:04 PM

SUZY, it seems to me that you are not an EXPERT on this subject. why do you keep BLAMING us guys? just remember, your not PERFECT either. and it seems like you have an EXCUSE for everything.

suzy August 16, 2012 at 6:53 AM

Hey Alan, sorry that you are taking this blog so personally. Looks like it triggered a reaction that is rather surprising to me. But I do welcome your point of view and I thank you for your comment.

paul says July 26, 2012 at 12:22 AM

TO SUZY, by the way, there are many of us men that do want to COMMIT to the right woman. but what is the right woman today? years ago, did you know for a fact that many women were much better educated than now? of course they were. it is the women that are very picky with the kind of men they are looking for. many women are looking for a knight in shinning armor, to sweep them off their feet. would it be nice, if a lot of women today can accept a man for himself? god forbid, if they did. many women want men today, that are rich. there are a lot of us men that can accept a woman for herself, and she does not have to be rich to make us happy. that is the difference between the women of today, and the women of years ago. the women years ago accepted the men for who they were, and the women of today want it all. too many spoiled women out there now, that is the problem. and yes it is true, many women have a rotten attitude today, and i see it myself how they act. many women need to read a book on how to talk to men better, and this might just make them much more smarter. after all, miracles can happen. it is the women now that just can’t settle for a plain ordinary man, and are looking for the movie star type of man with a ton of money to keep them satisfied. buy the way, i am not picky and i can accept a plain ordinary woman to make me happy. but even they are hard to find now. bottom line, many of the women of today certainly need to be much better educated, that would help.

suzy July 26, 2012 at 1:04 PM

Thanks Paul for your comment. I have a question for you…what are you personally doing to change this situation? Like maybe better educate women or maybe you have some other ideas? If you want to see something change you need to be a part of contributing to that change…right? Just curious about what you are doing to make things better?

PAUL SAYS July 27, 2012 at 1:24 PM

TO SUZY, why can’t you admit that i am right with my comment? it is very obvious that women are certainly a lot different today, than they were years ago. it is very hard to change what women have become today, and many of them now have a one track mind. lets face it, many women do want to be in control nowadays. for example, if they meet a man that makes one hundred thousand dollars a year or more, and another man that makes, lets say only thirty thousand dollars a year, they will certainly go with the man that makes the big bucks. not all women, but many women want men that make the big money, and that shows you that many women can’t accept a man for himself. i do not mean to be rude with my comment, but as you can see this is the point that i am trying to get across. you asked me a question, what would i change to make it better. it is hard to make things better, since many women are very stubborn today. it is certainly the women of years ago, that were very much more educated than now. many women and men like i have said with my last comment, hardly made money back then, and each of them accepted on another for who they were. in my opinion, once women’s lib took over, it really changed them. PEACE.

suzy July 27, 2012 at 7:04 PM

Okay Paul lets just say the I admit your right…where do we go from here. You see my job as a dating coach is to solve dating problems. So let me think about how to solve your problem. Tick Tock Tick Tock Tick Tock Tick Tock sorry it took so long. I got it you need to date older women that way they will be better educated than the women of today. Here’s the thing…women are living much longer so you should have no problem meeting women in their 80′s and 90′s. These women will be much better educated and won’t judge you by how much money you make. Okay so where can you meet these women??? Assisted living centers for a start, maybe senior centers, places like that. Wow I just thought of something…if you’re really lucky you may meet some women who celebrating their centenial birthday, they would be even better educated. Okay my friend, looks like we’ve solved your problem! PEACE.

FRANKO SAYS July 31, 2012 at 10:06 PM

ha ha very funny with your comment SUZY. i am just trying to bring out a point here, and since you seem to be the EXPERT, your comments are not that helpful. i am a good man that does not play games, and i am very serious about meeting a good woman for me. i can see how very STUBBORN you are as well, just like so many women out there today. you women would not know what to do, even if you had a good man to begin with. i can see why it is so very difficult for me meeting a good woman today. and by the way, i know other men like me that have the same problem. so it is not just me. i can be very happy, if i can just meet the right woman for me. and for your information, i can be a ONE WOMAN MAN if i can just meet the RIGHT ONE for me. i am not looking for a woman that has a lot of money, like so many of the women that are really looking for RICH MEN TODAY. why just can’t a woman ACCEPT a man for himself? wouldn’t that be nice? i was married at one time myself, but she CHEATED on me. i was a very caring and loving husband that never CHEATED on her, and i did LOVE her very much at the time. i was VERY COMMITTED to her as well, knowing what i had at home and did not have to go out looking for it. and yes, it is very true, many women just can’t seem to stay with ONLY ONE MAN like they did years ago. all i want is to meet a GOOD WOMAN for me again, i do not think that i am asking too much. at least, i hope you will AGREE with me on that. PEACE.

FRANKO May 13, 2012 at 1:32 AM

i just had to make a comment about this topic. i am a STRAIGHT MAN that is seriously looking to meet the right woman for me, and have a RELATIONSHIP with her. it is the women that are to blame, why so many of us good men can’t seem to meet that good woman that we are looking for because, they do not want to COMMIT at all. why should i BLAME MYSELF, since i HATE going out as it is, and being that i am in my LATE FIFTIES certainly makes it VERY DIFFICULT for me now. it is so VERY SAD that there are so many LOW LIFE LOSER WOMEN, with a VERY BAD ATTITUDE PROBLEM that they have with us men today, and with so many women now that are LESBIANS, that will add to the PROBLEM as well.

suzy May 14, 2012 at 12:46 PM

Well thank Franko for sharing with us what you really fee. But I have to wonder who is it who really has a VERY BAD ATTITUDE PROBLEM? Maybe you need to take a good look in the mirror and ask yourself why are you attraction all these “low life loser women.” Seriously, if you adjust your attitude and let go of the anger and judgment you will probably start meeting some great women. Just a suggestion!

FRANKO SAYS July 23, 2012 at 12:13 AM

TO SUZY, i don’t mean to sound rude. but since i live down the shore, many women have their SHIT DON’T STINK OF AN ATTITUDE PROBLEM NOW. many of these women also really THINK THAT THEY ARE ALL THAT. well as you can see with that attitude that many of them have down here, it is without a doubt very hard meeting a GOOD WOMAN WHERE I AM. i can’t blame myself, since i did not do anything WRONG. all i want is to meet a nice woman for me. you can’t BLAME A STRAIGHT MAN like me for trying, can you? to see so many VERY LUCKY MEN AND WOMEN that were able to meet each other and have a family, certainly bothers me a lot. it is certainly what i would have VERY MUCH wanted to have as well. the men and women that were VERY LUCKY to have connect with one another, should really go to church to pray and thank GOD for having each other and a family as well. it is the men like us that are alone and single that are HURTING today. let me tell you it is no fun at all being alone, that is why i will go out every single night just not to be home by myself, since i have no one to stay home too. i was MARRIED at one time by the way, but she CHEATED on me. i was a VERY CARING AND LOVING HUSBAND that never mistreated her in anyway. i thought that i was going to spend the rest of my life with her, but that never worked out. if i had been a good twenty years younger than i am now, i would have more time to work with, but for me time is short. now i just go out and hope for the best, PEACE.

suzy July 24, 2012 at 3:09 PM

Hi Franko…so how’s it working for you when you blame all the women out there for your romance problems? If you were a woman writing this I would tell her the same thing just reverse the gender. It may not be your fault…but it is your problem. Our thoughts create our reality and you are doing a good job of seeing how your thoughts about the women where you live are manifesting everyday for you. Change your attitude and thoughts and your world will change. Envision that type of woman that you would like to meet and stop cold turkey judging woman and that will allow your world to change. Don’t believe me?… give it a shot and see what happens! Suzy

suzy July 24, 2012 at 3:17 PM

Get out of your rant and join a good cause like help raise money for deprived kids. Or find an organization that you can get behind and support and start doing something useful with your life. Become the person you want to meet and improve every aspect of yourself for the better. Get passionate about helping some well deserving cause and see how that will change your perspective on life. What I’m really saying my friend is….GET A LIFE and that will be the way to attract a quality woman. Suzy

FRANKO SAYS July 24, 2012 at 12:30 AM

TO SUZY, i do not want to sound so rude, but it is the women of today that are VERY NASTY these days. i am a GOOD MAN by the way, and i don’t mean to be so nasty with my last comment. i can easily COMMIT to just one woman, but since i live down the shore, many of them THINK THAT THEY ARE ALL THAT. it is very difficult to meet a real good woman down here, because they just walk away even if i just say good morning to them. can’t blame myself, since so many women are just so unfriendly now. i hate going out to begin with, and it is like a game trying to meet a woman that can accept me for who i am. today woman are looking for men with a lot of money, and that shows you that many of them are just no good at all. that is the trouble today, it is more that the women that can’t accept a man, even if he does not make a lot of money. that is why many women today, are just so VERY UNEDUCATED. where years ago, many women and men had no choice but to ACCEPT one anther for who they were. the combination of so many women now making a lot of money, and now that they really THINK THAT THEY HAVE THE POWER, they feel as though they do not need a man anymore.

Damien July 11, 2011 at 5:59 AM

“Or maybe we should use him as an example of the type of man you want to stay away from”
“However, in contrast, we have A Good Guy who is long term relationship oriented”

Nice “politically correct” way to file me as a maschilist, Suzy…

pity for you, im not a doormat, nor an hate-whomen men, but im sure i will never post again in your femminist website.. you should be more smart to run your website since not all men are dumb-nuts..

My post is based upon FACTS, not emotional things.. is not based upon my life completely.. i have not wrote all that post only to be threated as a maschilist.. i didn’t offend your intelligence..

..and by the way, im already married in a long run, so don’t worry about your girlfriends, none of them will meet me for sure..so you may sell your insight-crystal ball..
Good luck Wise Princess!

suzy July 11, 2011 at 4:10 PM

Damien, please accept my apology for hurting your feelings. And misunderstanding that you evidently were just trying to set women straight about the actual facts about ‘commitment from men’. Somehow, I missed that you are really just a good guy, (disguised as a bad guy) trying to get women to face reality. I guess I just missed the good deed that you were trying to communicate to all the naive women in this world. I bet a lot of women who visit this website will be saddened to hear that you are married and no longer available

But maybe that is just my silly thinking.

Ladies, please help me out here and share your point of view about the wisdom this Gentleman…or should we call him Prince Charming has graced us with.

Cheers,
Suzy,
Better known as Wise Princess!

Damien July 7, 2011 at 4:33 AM

::::Why Men Increasingly Avoid Marriage:::::::

Across the internet, women have begun making statements such as:

Why are men avoiding marriage?
Why do guys avoid commitment?

Being single sucks.

A Carl Weisman study showed American men are increasingly avoiding marriage. In many other countries, like Italy, Spain, Australia and so on, Men fear getting involved in bad marriages with bad wives. This fear is partly driven by the Nazifeminist based anti-husband messages of women’s magazines, TV and writers.

For example, look at those femminine Magazines, many claims their marriage survey shows moms are angry at their husbands “at surprising levels”. They state husbands “often don’t notice what needs to be done around the house or with the kids”.

They also claim husbands have “more time to themselves” as compared with moms. Their survey stated 46% of moms get irate with their husbands once a week or more. Lisa Bain, executive editor of Parenting Magazine said “The truth is if you prick any one of us with a little pin, anger comes out”. Female writers of ABC News and the Associated Press discussed the survey and expressed outrage at husbands.

However, the magazine’s survey completely ignored husbands. No husband was asked anything. His opinions were considered unimportant. His efforts at work were ignored and he was largely unappreciated by his wife, also this trend is the same when someone interview people in the streets, very few men and a lot of women.

Another example: One stay at home mom participating in the survey stated she was angered at her husband (who worked 11 hour days) because he set aside some time one day a week to be an independent music producer – something he enjoyed. Another wife responding to the survey stated though her husband did 60% of the housework plus his job, she was angered she had to ask him to do housework.

Single men wonder why is he doing 60% of the work plus his job. They think:

Why should I get married if my opinions don’t matter?
Why would I want to marry a woman who will be mad at me every week for the rest of my life because I don’t do things her way?
Why is she my boss?

It should also be noted none of the wives in the survey report stated they help their husband with house repairs. Additionally, Glen Sacks stated, according to the Bureau of Labor Statics, men’s time to themselves is a meaningless 1% higher than women’s.

Another example: aMERICAN women’s magazine “Double X”, promotes books where wives cheat on their husbands. The book ‘Prospect Park West’ was promoted with the headline “Mommies Want to Have Sex, Just Not With Their Husbands”.

The book ‘The Seven Year Itch’ was promoted with the question “is it still realistic to expect wives to remain faithful to their husbands?” Conversely Double X continuously criticizes cheating husbands. The feminist notion its acceptable for a wife to cheat but wrong for her husband to be unfaithful has also been promoted by the online women’s magazine Ivillage (though not all its writers agree with this mentality), female writers of the online magazine Askmen and, incredibly, Men’s Health Magazine. Additionally, female reporters of ABCNews & Good Morning America continuously criticize cheating husbands. They refuse to criticize cheating wives.

Single men think:
Why get married if its ok for my wife to cheat but I have to remain faithful?
Why should I give up dating different women to be married to a cheating wife?
Why should I accept abuse?

Many husbands around the world have begun asking these same questions and have begun dumping their cheating wives in increasing numbers. This has given rise to websites such as “Stop Your Divorce in 4weeks” and “Cheatingways”. These sites seek to prevent husbands from divorcing their cheating wives. The 2nd site (owned by a woman) actually encourages wives to cheat on their husbands. It offers wives a wealth of tips on how to deceive and fraud their husband. The site apparently was not founded with this intent but, like most of the countries all over the world, drifted into an anti-husband mentality!

Single men think:

Since marriage means the exploitation of husbands then why the hell should I get married? Do they think I’m stupid?

Lastly, in many countries (e.g: U.S.A, Spain, Italy and so on) divorce laws also cause men to fear marriage.

The feminist judicial system often rules against husbands in divorce. Husband’s are usually ordered to pay large alimony / child support payments to the ex-wife. Some claim the child support payments contain hidden alimony. In many countries, these payments don’t decrease if the ex-wife’s income dramatically increases after the divorce or if she get another man/husband.

Though some wives with high paying jobs have been ordered to pay alimony/child support to their ex-husbands, many judges are reluctant to apply divorce laws equally. Additionally, if the husband later loses his job & fails to continue child support payments, he will be jailed or punished severely!

A husband may also face false accusations of sexual and child abuse during the divorce. In those countries with heavy feminist bureaucracy, the husband will have to prove his innocence while stay in prison.

Some wives will interfere with the husband’s visitation rights to his children. In feminist oriented countries, the courts will do nothing to stop her. And paternity fraud remains legal.

::::::The divorce system is designed to trap men in bad marriages with bad wives.

An increasing number of men in many countries are now reaching the conclusion that being a husband is not worth it. The better deal is to remain single and have a series of relationships with different women while pursuing hobbies and life goals.
Additionally, a college educated single man can have a very good life.

What if everything were reversed.

What if only a husband’s perspective was important in marriage and cheating was only wrong for the wife?
What if the family court system discriminated against wives?
Would women want to become wives to the massive degree they do today?

Doubtful.

By nature, men and women are companions. By Nazifeminism, men and women are now adversaries.

No word of lie, I withness men who was involved with women who would complain if they took the garbage out and put in the wrong trash can. She had two, and they both went out to the curb on Mondays, but if they put it in the can further from the door going outside, there was hell to pay.

Still another would bitch at me for doing my own laundry…the wrong way…meaning “not the way I do my own”.

Guys, you get married and you will always be wrong. Now I understand that these are smallish things over which to get upset, but if you get this kind of treatment for stupid and pointless shit, what kind of treatment can you expect with more important stuff?

Marriage is voluntary slavery for any man. The only joy a wife has is complaining about everything you do, everything you say, and everything you believe. They may not all be ball-busting bull dykes, but they sure as hell think of you as nothing but a child needing her guidance; and a stupid one at that.

Women wonder what happened to all the nice guys. When they say they want someone nice, they mean someone who never rebels, never disagrees, and only talks about what she wants to talk about. Don’t even think about considering yourself a self-realized human being. At best, you are an errant pet. Don’t believe me? Watch how they all spit venom amongst themselves when the men-folk are out of ear shot. It isn’t enough to merely be a decent if flawed man. You have to be “nice”.

::::Men’s reproductive rights? none!

It doesn’t matter if it’s planned or not, NO MALE has any reproductive rights whatsoever.

Meanwhile women have dozens of means of contraception, the right to abort WITHOUT the other parent’s consent, complete control over any male’s reproductive destiny, the right to simply dump babies they don’t want and more.

It’s way past time women were required by law to acquire the father’s consent before proceding with any pregnancy. His involvement in the process should be both voluntary AND consensual.

The only fact is that women have control over every part of the reproductive cycle – from pre-conception via contraceptives, to pregnancy via legalized abortions, and even post-birth via adoption and no penalized abandonment. A woman does not have to be a mother, if she so chooses.

Now let’s look at what reproductive rights men have. They have none!

If a woman gets pregnant, and can easily terminate it or give it away, she can choose to keep it so she can extract money from the man. Conversely, she can choose to kill the unborn baby, even if the man wants it.

So I must disagree with statement that both parties should pay out of wedlock. Until men have equal reproductive rights (funny how women only want equality when it benefits them exclusively), all responsibilities should be solely placed on the woman who chooses to become a parent when she can opt out of it at any time.

Marriage is the biggest source of depression and soul-crushing malaise for men in many countries. Nothing else even comes close.

It is no wonder that the marriage rate is dropping fast everywhere, and that 40% of people say “marriage is obsolete”. Data from the U.K. that has not been cherrypicked to favor marriage shows that men who don’t marry are happier then men in any kind of marriage; And men who never marry have less heart disease than married men now. The old saw about married men “living longer” has also been disproven, with newer, better data.

:::: Divorce: Men are doomed, women wins the pot!

The only certain way to avoid losing the house, children, money, cars, and mental and physical health is not married.

Each strategy, action plan and various precautions that you may take before get married, do not solve two major problems related to marriage in a feminist society like ours.

The first of these two main problems arises when you get married: your wife from that moment, takes the knife by the handle.

The second problem is that in case of separation, in most cases is the man to lose everythings.

Regarding the first problem, your girlfriend just became “wife” is automatically invested by State laws with a great new power that earlier, during the normal relationship, did not have.

It ‘s the power of using blackmail as a weapon in this Feminist State society, that is threatening the separation with everything that goes with it (the second problem).

All the grains of the first problem can manifest itself in countless ways. An example: you have children, you want to send them to private school, your wife, to public school. Discuss, argue, and do not come to a compromise. In the evening, or night, your wife decides to revenge about you in a snake way: she doesn’t make love with you, for days, weeks, sometimes even for mouths.

This weapon, we may name it “sexual blackmail”, she had it also before marriage, but it was fair, since you could oppose the other weapons:

1) I leave you,
2) I go with another woman better than you,
3) I go to prostitutes,

etc.etc.

All these weapons, balancing the relactionship between men and women, now doesn’t works anymore!, well, you still have them but you can potentially backfire yourself!

if you leave it, go with another, go to prostitutes or else your wife could use his new femminist State laws power, which did not had before, and invoke the rules (female), asking for the separation and punish you with everything that goes with it.

During the marriage your wife can do the good and the bad weather, i doesn’t matter how much “land” you have in a marriage, keep in mind that she always rule on the entire playing field, and this one of those situations where the only way to don’t lose, is not to play.

In other words, will you board a plane if you already knows that the chances it may crash is above 70%?? Doubtful.

Do not get married.. We can not and should not entrust our fate to the only “good heart” of the woman you’re set, since for men are missing a number of safeguards that make the marriage the equivalent of Russian roulette (loaded with five bullets..)

Once you become aware of this, we must consider the underlying problems, and before you ask “is convenient for me to get married?” you Would be better to ask yourself “why I want to get marry?”.

For believers, this needs may arise to make the sacrament of marriage. But let me tell you.. does this sacrament make sense in a corrupted society, where the marriage seems to have become an excuse to have joy in the church for a day, have a good time for a week going “honeymoon in the Maldives”, only to dissolve this “sacred link “when you wife decide it’s time to” break free from the chains of marriage (but not from your bank account)?

Is this or not, for believers, a serious insult to the sacrament of marriage?

Just as in a church, used for black prayers and the adoration of the devil should not celebrate prayers, so in a society corrupted by feminist cancer, a church should not be used to clean the traditions that we have only in the outer shell, but within inside is corrupted and decaying.

For non-believers, however, the issue is much simpler, and decide not to marry takes a sense of independence from the increasingly oppressive rule from this NAZIFEMMINIST State laws against men in many countries!

Let me ask you, Why give the State more freedom to enter right into our bedrooms, giving women more options to punish men when she decide that this is right? why let them be the judges of men sentimental/economical life?

This power, which the NAZIFEMMINIST State laws has used and continues to use to transfer money from men’s wallets in women’s pockets, and to widen the freedom of all proportion to the detriment of women than men, now sees its greatest expression in the Marriage!

The only solution, TODAY, is: AVOID MARRIAGE.

If you want to live the experience of married life, you can always experiment with cohabitation, longer or shorter, always provided that they are not made more insidious and misleading laws to equate cohabitation with marriage! talk straight to your partner that you are not ready for marriage and eventually you’ll never be… and if they start to argue with you that you are selfish and you should grow up and get your responsabilities, it means that you should be ready to be enslaved to what they thing is best for you.. so ditch them as soon as you can! if you don’t want to be another bancomat/ATM men with the word “welcome” tatooed in your shoulders, just to remember that you become a new Nazifeminist’s slave!

suzy July 8, 2011 at 4:51 PM

Damien from Italy expresses one man’s point of view.

What is your reaction?

Or maybe we should use him as an example of the type of man you want to stay away from.

The problem is sometimes they disguise themselves as Prince Charming dating after forty check it out.

However, in contrast, we have A Good Guy who is long term relationship oriented…

Check out these comments from ‘Tre132’ in terms of what a 40 plus year old man finds attractive in a woman:

“As a recently divorced 45-year-old man, may I just say: Amen, sister! In a couple of weeks I’m going to have my first date with the first and only woman who came to mind when I started thinking about dating again, …” Read more at the bottom of, ‘How To Attract A Guy Over 40’.

suzy August 16, 2012 at 7:05 AM

Hey Franko I hope you can meet a GOOD WOMAN sooner than later. Thanks for sharing your point of view.

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