Are you wondering: “Am I Dating A Loser?”
OMG girl you’ve come to the right place.
Short And Sweet Answer: Yes He’s A Loser
If you are asking the question, ‘is he a loser’, then your answer is probably yes.
Otherwise, you would not be questioning your feelings.
The key is to understand there are many versions of this type of man that really doesn’t have your back when it come to love and relationships.
Are you dating a deadbeat?
This guy is like a parasite that exists by what he can take from you.
A word of warning: Don’t underestimate this freeloader; in this relationship, he will take all you have until you have no more to give.
He will leave you emotionally, physically and financially drained.
Are you in a relationship with a loser who is a down and outer?
Signs You’re Dating A Loser
He complains about having to dodge the bill collectors because it is not his fault that he can’t pay the bills.
He is just going through a streak of bad luck.
Watch out for this con man, after you have paid for everything and bailed him out, this character will still be down and out.
That is the characteristic of this man er… low life, is that he will never change.
Perhaps you are involved with the type of bum that is really good at being a failure.
Some might call him lazy and that is the reason he can’t get anywhere in life. He looks to others to take care of the everyday responsibilities in life.
He tells you he is really trying to get his act together and pay his own way but there is no change in his behavior.
Actions speak louder than words, so look at the reality not the so called promise.
However, here is a more important question to you.
Why are you wasting your time and energy with this poor excuse of a man?
This problem is not about the jerk you are with, rather it is about you and why you are with him. If this is your situation than you need to listen up and take stock of yourself.
Look at it this way.
If you have children and they see you in this type of relationship, then what message are you giving them?
You need to gather your strength and courage and dump this guy now to protect your offspring from following in your footsteps as adults.
You need to ask yourself if you deserve better than what you have settled for.
Explore the ways to build up your self esteem so you can believe in yourself and value the person you are. You know that you deserve better than what you are accepting in your life.
Get ah movin girl… you can do this.
If you are with a loser, kick that boy to the curb.
You’ll thank me later.
P.S. Got a story about a dead beat boyfriend? Tell me about it in the comments below.