Best Places To Meet Men – First Answer This Question

by suzy

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Are you a divorced woman asking where the best places to meet men are?

Have you re-entered the dating world and feel frustrated and confused about how to meet some nice guys?

Conversely, have you been out there for awhile and thinking this is not working I keep finding losers?

Well, if this describes your situation then keep on reading to discover why you have these questions about where to meet eligible marriage minded guys.

First, get clear on your priorities. You are not really saying that you just want to meet just any men are you?

What you want to have happen is you find the type of males that you have some common interests with and feel a sense of connection.

My guess is that is what you want and that’s fair and makes sense.

There are tons of places to meet single people but that is not the answer to your dilemma.

Your predicament has to do with how you have been approaching the situation of where to meet good men.

Let’s take it a step at a time. What is your goal? Are you bored and just looking for someone to provide some entertainment for you?

You know to add a little spice to your life! Is that what would satisfy you right now?

On the other hand, are you looking for something else? Before you can move on you must get clear on your intention.

Take the time to look deep inside and really be honest with yourself.

You know sometimes what you say you desire is not really what you can live with long term.

This step is vital before you waste anther minute wondering about where are the places to meet guys.

The question you must ask yourself is why do you want to have any interaction with members of the opposite sex?

Once you have that answer then you are ready to put a realistic plan into place.

The bottom line is if you are looking for nothing more than the diversion of going out with a gentleman occasionally, then the bars and clubs will satisfy that need.

However, if your goal is to find a fulfilling long term relationship you will have to do your homework.

And after doing your homework, roll up your sleeves and go to work. As a single woman over a certain age, dating is no longer a passive pursuit.

You need to take the time to come up with all the qualities that you would require for your perfect mate.

It starts with you and your values.

As an example: Is education and a high level of intelligence important to you?

Alternatively, is it someone who loves the outdoors and all the activities related to that lifestyle?

Is a financially successful guy more important to you than a middle class family type of man?

There are no right or wrong answers here, it is strictly a matter of getting clear on who you would most likely have a successful relationship with.

So as you can see the question of where are the best places to meet men is pointless, unless you answer the more important question.

What type of man would most suit your needs at this point in your life?

It is as simple as that!

What kind of guy will you connect and click with long term.

Keep your eye on the prize and the prize is a relationship with and man than will endure.

Suzy Weiss

Dating Coach For Divorced Women

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Sarah February 17, 2012 at 8:57 AM

After reading this article it opened my eyes to my problem. I have been so focused on just trying to figure out where or how to meet men, that I never considered what I wanted as a result. No wonder this whole thing of meeting men has been confusing for me. The truth is I want to find a good man that I can have a relationship with. Hopefully this understanding will help me meet him. But I’m still confused about exactly how to meet that kind of man. What am I missing?

suzy February 17, 2012 at 4:24 PM

Okay Sarah, you half way there. You basically know the kind of man you would like to meet. The best way to find this guy, is to start to do the things you most enjoy. If you like to hike join a hiking group. Sign up for a finance class if you have an interest in learning more about investments etc. You’ll meet interesting men there. If you have children join Parents Without Partners, that is where you’ll meet family oriented men. Volunteer organizations are another great place to meet single men. Are you getting the drift :wink: These ideas should get started on the right track.

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